very annoying gnome wayland bug new windows are not raised

This seems to fix it?

gsettings set org.gnome.desktop.wm.preferences focus-new-windows 'smart'

Via https://askubuntu.com/questions/1440415/gnome-new-windows-not-focused-automatically

No that does not fix it at all. At least, not in Firefox when screen sharing is on, not in Gnome Terminal for new windows.

Trying https://extensions.gnome.org/extension/1236/noannoyance/

Via https://askubuntu.com/questions/80969/gnome-shell-move-windows-to-front-on-launch-no-more-is-ready-to-use-noti

No that does not fix it either.

Welp i will switch to any open source OS that gets this extremely basic capability right.